...doesn't mean I can't have an opinion on the fact that Re-Bachelorette Jen chose herself. And my opinion is: good for her.
This, IMHO, is what should have happened in the final ep of SATC. That season finale wasn't about Big vs. Petrovsky. It was about Paris vs. New York; being a foreigner vs. recommitting to a life you love. Not exactly the same for Bachelorette Jen, but I think that it's to her credit that she decided that none of the gents selected by ABC were right for her. There are those who are very critical of Jen's decision, but I think this constitutes a step up for reality television.
The reality is, even surrounded by beautiful people who may also be of a very high caliber personalitalistically (we needed a new word), sometimes, the chemistry isn't right for a long-term relationship. That Jen didn't let the pressure of ABC, of being on TV and dating before an audience of millions, sway her into making a wrong decision, I say is an assertion that a pure heart cannot be seduced by the luxurious, but ultimately constructed, framework of reality television. The heart wants what it wants.
Of course, people who actually did watch this show may have a different opinion. And they are welcome to share it here.